Mid week humour

I realised I like my routines

Growing up I always liked change. There would be that excitement of something new. Lately I realized I ain't such a big fan of it. In the past two years I don't remember having  any two months that looked similar.

According to my normal schedule I would not be writing a post on a Monday night. I would just be back from my swim lesson and having a cup of hot tea. Only if things were to go according to our plans. I ended up with the flu- on Valentines day :( Not that I had anyone special to go out with, but had to cancel lunch plans with friends. Was hoping to be at work today after the 2 day rest, but I am still sick and probably heading to a chest congestion.

It looks like another day in bed tomorrow or in bed with my work laptop trying to finish up on stuff. Really hoping to get back to my workouts, work and some normal routine. Till then I shall get back to my faithful companions- books, hot water and lots and lots of tissue :P

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Are You Fighting The New Greed?

A good post on TGC by Christine Hoover

Kyle and I sat down at the restaurant, away from the children, yet I still couldn't relax and enjoy myself. I had been consistently distracted for weeks. Slumped at the table, I stared at him and tried to explain how I was feeling.

“I feel overrun with thoughts and emotions, many of them sad and discontented. My brain feels like it's being pulled in a million different directions. What is going on with me?”

After listening to my winding trail of thoughts for many minutes, Kyle replied, “You check e-mail a lot. You're on your phone a lot.”

My purse sat on the booth seat beside me, and inside my phone's blinking green light beckoned even as he said those words. He's right, I thought, immediately recalling a conversation with a group of women about our children and technology. What was it one of them had said? “When people are on their phones, they're not present in their surroundings. They're going someplace else.”

That description explained it all—the discontentedness, the obsessive comparison with other women, the uncertainty and its resulting pursuit of online evidence that I'm successful and loved, the desire for what I don't have and the wondering if I ever will, the pride. I'd only been checking my phone in every down moment, but it became apparent that these seemingly inconsequential acts of swiping and scrolling weren't so simple and inconsequential after all.

Technology Run Amok

The next morning I opened my Bible, gave this issue to the Lord, and waited. I knew he was going to talk to me about it, and he did.

“God, help me,” I prayed. “I've allowed technology to distract me beyond measure. I'm causing myself great pain.”

It seemed as if God were saying, “Doesn't this remind you of something you read recently, something about piercing yourself through with many sorrows? What does it say again?”

This is what I'd read in 1 Timothy 6:9–10:

But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and harmful lusts which drown men in destruction and perdition. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil, for which some have strayed from the faith in their greediness, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows. 

Again, he seemed to say, “What you're doing is being greedy. Technology and social media is birthing a new greed, and you've fallen into the snare. Your desire for accolades, invitations, relationships with those I haven't given you, followers, and whatever contentment you think you’ll gain is actually covetousness and greed, and all you're accomplishing is piercing yourself through with many sorrows. Read further.”

Command those who are rich in this present age not to be haughty, nor to trust in uncertain riches but in the living God, who gives us richly all things to enjoy. Let them do good, that they be rich in good works, ready to give, willing to share, storing up for themselves a good foundation for the time to come, that they may lay hold on eternal life. (1 Tim. 6:17–19)

Going somewhere else in your mind takes away time and energy that could be given to the good works right in front of you.

Slicing Your Mind into a Million Pieces

He helped me understand by applying the Word to me: “Your greediness means you're trusting in uncertain riches and not in me. It also slices your mind in a million pieces, taking you out of your present life and causing stress. This stress gives the illusion that you don't have time to give to others; that you're busy in ways that you're not; that you don't have enough when you have all you need, and that you must be stingy with yourself. Going somewhere else in your mind takes away time and energy that could be given to the good works right in front of you. You are rich—in love, in time, in energy, in gifts—but you act as if you're not. Keep reading.”

But you, O man of God, flee these things and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, gentleness. Fight the good fight of faith. . . . Now godliness with contentment is great gain. (1 Tim. 6:11–12, 6)

The Lord kept instructing me: “This is what matters. This is true gain, not an uptick in Twitter followers or an important e-mail coming through or seeing how you stack up against others. All of what's important with regard to contentment happens in the present. Pursue godliness and pursue contentment in me. This is great gain.”

I knew that God was absolutely right, and I felt so silly because I step so willingly into the snare of greed. But God reminded me that it isn’t silly—it’s a fight.

The New Greed

The new greed. That phrase kept ringing in my ears as I was seeking God about how to fight the good fight of faith. The new greed. We are after so many things, and it's playing out on our phones and iPads and computers as much as it ever has in our other material possessions and our bank accounts. 

Why are we—why am I—checking our phones so often, scrolling through Facebook or Instagram? What exactly are we looking for? Why are we leaving the present that God has given us so richly to enjoy to go somewhere else in our mind, a place often called Comparison or Discontent? 

God has given me the present to richly enjoy. I have enough and, with God's help, will not be ensnared by subtle greed and covetousness.

Weddings, Weddings and some more Weddings ;)

This month has probably been just about weddings. There were 4 of them. It was good to share in their joy as they plan to start a new life with their respective partners. Its funny how every person has a different style of celebration. Some were somber, others were a lot more exciting and crazy.

It's but natural that you end up thinking of your own wedding ( if your already married) or how you would like it to be( to those who are single). So I fall in the second category and have had my moments where I have secretly planned out my wedding day in my head :P

Its actually good to attend different weddings. There are a lot of do's and dont's you can come back with. That got me thinking to the stuff I would have/not have at my wedding. 

So here is a small list:

Have's:

-Small crowd

-Morning wedding- preferably winter time

-Ceremony and venue at the same location

-Food to be eaten together with everyone

-A photo booth

-If possible no individual pictures with everyone on the stage etc

-Thank you note for from the bride and groom for the invitees

Have not's:

-Given the Indian scene- I would probably not keep  a 

 dance floor :P

-Color co-ordinated bridesmaids

-No change in the attire for the reception

-Zillion camera people ( especially during  the vows- as I have noticed that the people in the pews can't see anything:(

I am hoping somehow I can keep up to the list. If not, there is always court marriage ;)

Ha!

Memorable Moments of 2014:)

I can't believe that we are already in 2015. Last year was quite a blur to me. But there were still a lot of memorable things, more of 'first time' events. To list a few-getting my  own room, flying in a plane and many more things.

I enjoyed travelling in 2014. Bangalore, Panchgani, Mumbai and Goa. Blessed to have great friends all across. Anyways I am not great with words so here are a few photos that mark the highlights of last year..:)

Naiesha's pre birthday celebration in Panchgani

Long lasting friendships

Fun times

New and old friends :)

Family I love :)

Joy of holding Abigail:)